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Towards Solid Footing
KINSEY'S STORY
It's always interesting and amazing to meet one of our
HomeStretch families. Very rarely are the stories the
same, even if similarities exist between them.
I had heard about one of our single moms and the
tremendous amount of debt she has repaid while
participating in the program. For so many of us, just
making ends meet is a good-enough objective; paying off
debt is a noble, yet often-unattainable goal. Addressing
debt, especially housing-related debt is part of the
contract between HS and a family, but that doesn't make
the task easy.
Kinsey (not her real name) moved into a HomeStretch
unit in July of 2007. With her came two young children,
very few belongings, health problems, and $15,000 of debt.
That's a lot of baggage.
Needless to say, Kinsey felt alone and burdened. She
was an educated woman-a bachelor's degree in economics
from a university in Africa and another undergraduate
degree in accounting from Oglethorpe University here in
Atlanta. But, life circumstances had conspired to drag her
down.
She had married, born two children, attended classes at
Oglethorpe, and left an abusive marriage. Then
near-disaster struck as she fell ill, was misdiagnosed,
underwent surgery, tried to keep her job, developed a
blood clot, and with the help of friends, kept caring for
her children.
Coming to HomeStretch, however, marked a real change in
direction. Kinsey was paired with a support team from
Roswell United Methodist Church and began close contact
with Monica Dubur, a family case manager with HomeStretch.
An intensive look at what Kinsey owed showed that the vast
majority was debt related to her illness and surgeries;
she was very fortunate that her hospital stays had been
covered through financial assistance, but that still left
doctor fees, medicine, etc. All debt was categorized as to
what debt might be negotiated down, what was
housing-related, and which creditors needed to be repaid
first.
Great idea in concept, but just two months after coming
to HomeStretch, Kinsey lost her job, due to all the time
she had missed work while sick. So, the immediate goal
shifted to job searching, and again the family support
team and family case manager were standing by her to help.
There were numerous fits and starts with the jobs, all
complicated by the need for child care-availability and
affordability. Then, in April 2008, Accountemps placed her
in a job with Seed America---a nonprofit that takes
ownership of unoccupied industrial or manufacturing
properties and then leases them to small business owners
and entrepreneurs. She also applied to Habitat for
Humanity, but her finances weren't in good enough shape
for acceptance.
In early 2009, Kinsey joined another nonprofit called
Lifespan Resources, which is a ministry of the Trinity
Presbyterian Church in Buckhead, and put her knowledge of
QuickBooks™ to work. She had found a home-her work week
really was only a workday and all her pay was going
towards childcare-but she felt needed, wanted, and able to
contribute to the mission of Lifespan. Its programs
provide lunch-and-learn opportunities for health,
fellowship, and learning for those 55 and older who seek
friendship and a reason for being.
That eight-hour shift turned into 36 hours weekly. It
meant she and her girls could survive. In April 2009, she
was approved for food stamps. Those two steps meant that
perhaps she could do more to cut down her debt. Then, last
August, Kinsey was approved for CAPS (Childcare And Parent
Services), a program of the Georgia Department of Family
Services! Right there, that freed up $400 each month, not
to spend frivolously, but to build up some savings and
again, to pay down that looming debt. Kinsey felt good
enough about her family circumstances that she applied for
the second time to Habitat.
Fast forward to March of this year: Kinsey was accepted
into the Habitat program! She was one of five accepted,
out of 80 applications received. She is attending classes,
and started hammering and sawing this month to put in her
required 50 hours of personal sweat equity. She already
knows she can count on her family support team from RUMC-Helen
Meola and Bob Moore-- to at least provide or find some
child care while she works at the Habitat site. And she
and Habitat officials have checked-this path to home
ownership will not affect the CAPS money and food stamps
that she receives.
"I thank the Lord for that! And I will move into a
two-bedroom condo," said Kinsey. "I wouldn't
even ask for a three-bedroom place. We'll just be happy to
have a home."
She has been in the HS program for three years- -longer
than the average stay, but this aided her request to join
Habitat. Upon completion of the transitional program,
Kinsey then became eligible for HomeStretch's affordable
program (which offers clients the opportunity to continue
to pay an income-based rent but requires them to pay their
own utilities - helping them to become more
self-sufficient and prepare for market rate rental housing
or homeownership).
More good news came her way just a week or two ago. Her
five-year-old daughter will attend Catholic school this
fall by meeting all eligibility requirements for a
G.R.A.C.E. scholarship (Georgia Residents Assisting
Children's Education), a tax-advantaged fund for Catholic
parishioners in the state. This is not just school for her
first year, but funds will pay for her education through
eighth grade!
But what about that nagging debt that mars Kinsey's
credit record? That $15,000 has been whittled down to
$2,600 and regular payments are being made to wipe it out
entirely. Said Kinsey, "I am just so greatful (sic)
that a place like Homestretch existed to help me get back
on track for the sake of my little ones."
She also credits her employers and others associated
with Lifespan Resources, who have really taken her under
their wing. They have helped with a better-running car,
other occasional expenses, and are contributing so the
family of three can travel to Seattle in June to witness a
sister and aunt's graduation.
"Working with Kinsey for the past 20 months has
been such a joy, and her drive to succeed is absolutely
inspiring," commented Dubur. "She is an
exemplary client who works diligently towards her goals,
and has chosen to make the necessary sacrifices in order
to achieve her dream of becoming a homeowner and providing
for her two little children. I couldn't be more proud of
her and her accomplishments." |