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SUCCESS STORIES
Heading Towards Solid Footing

KINSEY'S STORY 

It's always interesting and amazing to meet one of our HomeStretch families. Very rarely are the stories the same, even if similarities exist between them.

I had heard about one of our single moms and the tremendous amount of debt she has repaid while participating in the program. For so many of us, just making ends meet is a good-enough objective; paying off debt is a noble, yet often-unattainable goal. Addressing debt, especially housing-related debt is part of the contract between HS and a family, but that doesn't make the task easy.

Kinsey (not her real name) moved into a HomeStretch unit in July of 2007. With her came two young children, very few belongings, health problems, and $15,000 of debt. That's a lot of baggage.

Needless to say, Kinsey felt alone and burdened. She was an educated woman-a bachelor's degree in economics from a university in Africa and another undergraduate degree in accounting from Oglethorpe University here in Atlanta. But, life circumstances had conspired to drag her down.

She had married, born two children, attended classes at Oglethorpe, and left an abusive marriage. Then near-disaster struck as she fell ill, was misdiagnosed, underwent surgery, tried to keep her job, developed a blood clot, and with the help of friends, kept caring for her children.

Coming to HomeStretch, however, marked a real change in direction. Kinsey was paired with a support team from Roswell United Methodist Church and began close contact with Monica Dubur, a family case manager with HomeStretch. An intensive look at what Kinsey owed showed that the vast majority was debt related to her illness and surgeries; she was very fortunate that her hospital stays had been covered through financial assistance, but that still left doctor fees, medicine, etc. All debt was categorized as to what debt might be negotiated down, what was housing-related, and which creditors needed to be repaid first.

Great idea in concept, but just two months after coming to HomeStretch, Kinsey lost her job, due to all the time she had missed work while sick. So, the immediate goal shifted to job searching, and again the family support team and family case manager were standing by her to help. There were numerous fits and starts with the jobs, all complicated by the need for child care-availability and affordability. Then, in April 2008, Accountemps placed her in a job with Seed America---a nonprofit that takes ownership of unoccupied industrial or manufacturing properties and then leases them to small business owners and entrepreneurs. She also applied to Habitat for Humanity, but her finances weren't in good enough shape for acceptance.

In early 2009, Kinsey joined another nonprofit called Lifespan Resources, which is a ministry of the Trinity Presbyterian Church in Buckhead, and put her knowledge of QuickBooks™ to work. She had found a home-her work week really was only a workday and all her pay was going towards childcare-but she felt needed, wanted, and able to contribute to the mission of Lifespan. Its programs provide lunch-and-learn opportunities for health, fellowship, and learning for those 55 and older who seek friendship and a reason for being.

That eight-hour shift turned into 36 hours weekly. It meant she and her girls could survive. In April 2009, she was approved for food stamps. Those two steps meant that perhaps she could do more to cut down her debt. Then, last August, Kinsey was approved for CAPS (Childcare And Parent Services), a program of the Georgia Department of Family Services! Right there, that freed up $400 each month, not to spend frivolously, but to build up some savings and again, to pay down that looming debt. Kinsey felt good enough about her family circumstances that she applied for the second time to Habitat.

Fast forward to March of this year: Kinsey was accepted into the Habitat program! She was one of five accepted, out of 80 applications received. She is attending classes, and started hammering and sawing this month to put in her required 50 hours of personal sweat equity. She already knows she can count on her family support team from RUMC-Helen Meola and Bob Moore-- to at least provide or find some child care while she works at the Habitat site. And she and Habitat officials have checked-this path to home ownership will not affect the CAPS money and food stamps that she receives.

"I thank the Lord for that! And I will move into a two-bedroom condo," said Kinsey. "I wouldn't even ask for a three-bedroom place. We'll just be happy to have a home."

She has been in the HS program for three years- -longer than the average stay, but this aided her request to join Habitat. Upon completion of the transitional program, Kinsey then became eligible for HomeStretch's affordable program (which offers clients the opportunity to continue to pay an income-based rent but requires them to pay their own utilities - helping them to become more self-sufficient and prepare for market rate rental housing or homeownership).

More good news came her way just a week or two ago. Her five-year-old daughter will attend Catholic school this fall by meeting all eligibility requirements for a G.R.A.C.E. scholarship (Georgia Residents Assisting Children's Education), a tax-advantaged fund for Catholic parishioners in the state. This is not just school for her first year, but funds will pay for her education through eighth grade!

But what about that nagging debt that mars Kinsey's credit record? That $15,000 has been whittled down to $2,600 and regular payments are being made to wipe it out entirely. Said Kinsey, "I am just so greatful (sic) that a place like Homestretch existed to help me get back on track for the sake of my little ones."

She also credits her employers and others associated with Lifespan Resources, who have really taken her under their wing. They have helped with a better-running car, other occasional expenses, and are contributing so the family of three can travel to Seattle in June to witness a sister and aunt's graduation.

"Working with Kinsey for the past 20 months has been such a joy, and her drive to succeed is absolutely inspiring," commented Dubur. "She is an exemplary client who works diligently towards her goals, and has chosen to make the necessary sacrifices in order to achieve her dream of becoming a homeowner and providing for her two little children. I couldn't be more proud of her and her accomplishments."


JANEY'S STORY 

A single mom of three small children, Janey worked full-time to make ends meet. However, a full-time job did not provide enough income to sustain her family’s living expenses. With the added cost of summer childcare, her financial situation soon spiraled downward. Unable to pay one month’s rent, Janey’s family was evicted from their apartment. They moved in with relatives into cramped living quarters, where they slept on couches.

Janey and her family sought help from HomeStretch after hearing about the agency from a teacher at the children’s school. They came to HomeStretch with nowhere else to turn. Since that time, they have made great strides toward regaining stability. Working closely with her budget advisor, she successfully reduced her debt and established a savings account. With the help of her family coordinator, she took control of her future by learning how to make better life decisions.

Janey and her family are truly a HomeStretch Success story. This past March, they were selected for a Habitat home. Through her hard work and commitment to financial recovery, Janey is finally achieving the ultimate goal for her family—self-sufficiency.

The following is a letter Janey read at a HomeStretch Volunteer Appreciation Dinner:

Sometimes I feel like I’m dreaming…

I remember sitting in the car with my children at my daughter’s school parking lot. We were late, again. We had already been late too many times for the past couple of weeks.

The reason we were late so many times was because I had to drive from Norcross to Roswell to get my daughter to school.

The reason I had to drive from Norcross to Roswell was because I was living in my sister’s home and had nowhere else to go.

The reason I had nowhere else to go was because my family was evicted from our home.

I was so embarrassed, trying to hide our situation from as many people as possible. I feared that if my daughter’s school found out, they wouldn’t allow my daughter to attend there any longer. However, that day was the day I realized I had to tell our secret. I sat there for a moment in our car and told my daughter that she might have to go to another school. I told her that we had to pray about it. I felt like we may be able to find a place within that school district so she could stay. But if I couldn’t find a place close, she would have to change schools. I said, “If we pray, we will receive what is best”. We prayed together in the car that day. That day was the day I learned that I am a part of a loving community.

When I told my daughter’s teacher about our situation, the best thing happened. She did some research and in time, told me about a local program called HomeStretch that helps families who are in need of housing. After meeting with Ellen Fox, I thought the program sounded too good to be true. I continued to pray for the best. When I found out I was accepted in the HomeStretch program, I knew I was in God’s hands. I remember meeting the Executive Director, Sue Sharp, and when she hugged me, she was so happy just to meet me. I could see it in her eyes. I met my sponsors from the Roswell Women’s Club and when I saw our new home I was so happy. These women were very sincere and did a beautiful job fixing up our new place, making sure we were comfortable and felt at home.

I’ve been a participant of the HomeStretch program for 6 months now and it continues to feel very good and very true. Since I’ve been in the HomeStretch program, I have learned a lot about myself and the situation I put myself in that allowed us to be evicted. Besides strengthening my faith in God and having a safe roof over my family’s head, the most awesome thing is happening with my financial situation. I never before felt a spiritual connection with my financial situation, but I am now convinced that it does exist that way. Last Sunday I attended a church whose pastor’s sermon was about finances. He talked about the way people spend their money. He said that some spend without thinking, unconsciously planning for debt. These people usually live with debts from the past. Some people spend when they see something new, thinking they need this right now. These people live with what they have in the present. Others spend their extra money on getting rid of debts while putting some away to save and grow. These people are living and planning for what they will have in the future. Six months ago (and years before that) I was somewhere between the two “some people”. I would plan to spend my money a certain way, but when something new came along or something unplanned, I spent money on it, sometimes creating a new budget on the spot or in my head. Thanks to the Grace of God and HomeStretch, I am now the “other people”. HomeStretch and the women of Roswell have been so good to me. They have worked with me to lower my living expenses and helped me create a realistic budget so I could pay my debt, pay my bills and save money. This is the first time I’ve had a savings account, and the first time I’ve experienced paying bills early. I have been able to focus more on enjoying my children and my work and I’ve been introduced to a wonderful, supportive community.

The pastor also mentioned the art of giving. As children of God, we have to keep in mind to invest in God’s projects. I give thanks that I have so many resources that allow me to help others without taking away from my family. Seeing the HomeStretch staff, the volunteers and their families help so many other families and work so hard is such an inspiration to me and my children. I tell my children how special they are because they want to help us and they are working from their hearts. This, as the pastor said, will give them the greatest interest rate on their returns.

I will soon be transitioning out of the HomeStretch program and into permanent housing, and I keep telling myself that it is not a dream; it’s real. The people in the HomeStretch organization have been a great blessing to me and my family. Not only have they provided temporary housing and financial counseling for us, but they have helped me regain my self-confidence in my ability to support and provide for myself and my children. I am honored that I was asked to share my experience, and look forward to continuing what I have learned regarding my spiritual and financial progress and giving back to the community however God sees fit.

Give Thanks for you all!

Love,
The Roseman Family

 

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